Kurtis is 14 years old. He loves music and video games, but he dreams of becoming a professional basketball player. When he’s not a school, you can find him on the court practicing with his AAU team, Texas Explosion!
“People flock to him, he has that unique quality. If you know him, you want to be with him. Even grownups take to him,” says his mom, Brandie. “I see leadership.” She describes Kurtis as animated, personable, and fun. Even when playing on-line video games, 12-year-old Kurtis breaks into song, dances, and even talks with a fake British accent. He loves basketball and plays on two different teams. His coaches say even after playing for less than two years, he is really going to be someone on the court. Kurtis stands out on the court for two reasons; first, he is really good at basketball and second, he has vitiligo.
Vitiligo is considered to be an autoimmune condition where the body destroys the pigment cells which causes white patches on the skin. It is typically a chronic condition that can significantly alter a person’s appearance. While there are treatments, they are often of limited effectiveness and there are no known cures.
Kurtis started developing light spots on his skin when he was just six months old. Until about the time he started kindergarten, the spots were only on his arms and legs, and could be covered with long sleeves and pants. Then they began appearing on his face.
“Kurtis taught me a lesson about covering them. He ran into school that first day, and we haven’t covered them since,” Brandie said. He was so excited to let his true self shine through. She said his outgoing personality helps him with other people’s stares and questions. Even if they don’t feel like they need to shield him from this, they also realize no child is immune to being hurt.
A Children’s House for the Soul offers a warm accepting place to learn ways to empower children and teens facing their own unique challenges. Kurtis and his family attended the “Love the Skin You’re In” conference, and he has been to Camp Dermadillo several times.
Brandie said when they woke up the morning of the conference they almost decided not to come, but wanted to see what it was all about. She is so glad they did. “It’s not as big a deal at conferences or camp, there are no mean looks or stares, there is a comfort level, without judgment,” she explained.
Even with his outgoing and entertaining personality, Kurtis doesn’t always know how to answer questions or respond to people staring at him, he just wants to be accepted and make friends. His mom knows he hears the questions and she tries to give him the tools necessary to respond. A Children’s House for the Soul can help.
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You Can’t Teach What Has No History “This is how much God loved the world: He gave his Son, his one and only Son. And this is why: so that no one need be destroyed; by believing in him, anyone can have a whole and lasting life. God didn’t go to all the trouble of …
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Validation means to acknowledge and sometimes normalize someone’s feelings or reactions to a specific scenario. Validation continues the conversation, creates trust, and helps children communicate their truest feelings with the adults around them.
We should not shelter our children from our disappointment. While it is natural to have this desire, it is not a good idea to want to keep them from knowing that we, as adults, sometimes have “bad” (i.e. not the most fun) feelings.
In February we launched a reboot of our #Iwasmadeamasterpiece social media campaign from this summer with a fun valentines themed twist.
As part of our birthday surprise, A Children’s House for the Soul announced the launch of our public capital campaign to buy 1972 W. Dallas and renovate the space into the first ever community building dedicated to the social, emotional and spiritual support of children with chronic skin conditions/birthmarks and their families.
The 2020 Camp Dermadillo Reunion was a great success! We had more than 60 friends new and “old” come to Speedy’s Fast Track for a great day of go-kart racing, mini golf, laser tag, arcade games and more.
Love the Skin You’re In Family Day 2019 is officially in the books! We had a great time and learned a lot and I am so grateful for the wonderful day!
As the month of November is upon us, I know we are all going to begin reflecting on what we are thankful for, and secretly looking towards the new year thinking of things we hope to come. I just wanted to write you a letter to thank you, Skin, for all the ways you’ve been there for me and shaped me as a person. I never really stopped to think about it before, but in a way, you have made all the difference.